We share it all

H and I had a long gloomy night with not much sleep in it. And entirely too much introspection.

This has all hit my darling H very hard. He had begun to hope that maybe, just maybe, this time it’d go well. Oh, H. Oh, my dear heart.

He has also reached a place in his own processing of the woebollockydreariness mind-fuckage of infertility and loss, where being all British Male With Stiff Upper Lip and Emotional Constipation is not helping him, and he can feel it is not helping him.

Seeing what immense comfort and support I have been getting from the blogging community, and from having a good rant/vent/bitch/shriek as-and-when, H actually sat up past midnight setting up his own blog. So he can rant/vent/bitch/shriek too. Who knows if this will be something he just needs to do for now, while the pain is still fresh and sharp, or whether it’ll become a regular thing. I so hope there’ll be no need for it to become a regular thing.

Dear good readers, if any of you can spare a little bloggy love for a brand new blogger, please give it to H.

(P.S. H is being a tad more easy-to-find than I am. While I don’t wish to prevent real-life people blood-hound-tracking me back from his blog (hell, if they’re that curious, bring it on), I’d rather not make it too easy for the idle clickers to idly pick through my vapourings. So, please, make it all about H while you’re over there).


11 responses to “We share it all

  • Heather

    I’ve added him to my Google Reader too…now I can stalk you both!

    (insert evil laugh here)

  • Twangy Pearl

    Also adding H to reader.
    Will be very pleased to welcome him, though I wish it were for happier reasons.

  • Melissia

    I am not tech savvy (actually, just too lazy to set it up I think) enough to do the reader, plus my laptop had died so I am tapping away on the old, old kid’s model in the living room ( that no one uses) but have been over and will visit on a regular basis. And I will add to my bookmarks when I get a new laptop.

  • MFA Mama

    Oh honey. Oh H. Oh my heart, oh no, oh shit. Much love from across the pond and your sweet comment made me cry; you dear sweet girl.

    Fucking universe.

  • Betty M

    Adding to reader. Will head over to welcome and commiserate.

  • Katie

    Lots and lots of hugs from me (if that’s not too pink and fluffy), wasn’t sure how much to say on the other place as I gather your outside-the-computer friends may not know what’s going on, but I’m not as neutral about this as I may have sounded.

  • everydaystrange

    Oh honey – love to you both. I could smack someone for you, if it’ll help? Even if it doesn’t?

  • Kristi

    You know those letters you get in the mail when someone has made a donation in your honor? The one I’d send you today would read as follows:

    Dear May,

    Somewhere in Texas, a really rather stout post has been kicked in your name. Much hopping about and cursing ensued. This contribution and others like it will do [not] much to further our cause.

    Best regards,

    VP of Development
    Society for Discouraging the Universe from Fucking with May (SDUFM)

  • lizee

    SHIT. so sorry for the both of you. have no words cause sorry aint enough, but it’s all i’ve got. so very, very, sorry.


  • bir

    I’m so sorry that it’s so shit, May. I read your news yesterday, but as you know I’m going through my own right now and just didn’t have the strength to comment.
    Love to you and H x

  • manapan

    I’m sorry. Hugs to the both of you.

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