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No Pikaia May 27, 2008

Filed under: Bad sad things, I visit the Doctors, Pass the hankies, Pikaia — May @ 10:19 am

No heart-beat.

No foetal pole.

Irregular gestational sac, too small for dates.

Shit.

 

25 Responses to “No Pikaia”

  1. Ann Says:

    Oh, no no no. This is NOT how it was supposed to be for you.
    I’m so very very sorry. I’ve been there, and I know there’s nothing I can say to make it stop hurting like a bastard. I used to curl up in front of the fire at home for a couple of weeks with comfort-food, DVDs and some good books. Wasn’t a cure but it gave my mind somewhere else to go when I couldn’t face work or my family’s sympathy.
    Wish I had a wand. You know, the magic type, not the scary sonographer type. Would be waving it frantically your way. So sorry again.

  2. Hello, New here from NaComLeavMo. Wish I were tuning in to happier news. I’m so sorry for your loss. It fucking sucks, and I wish it were different. Hang in there and know that I am thinking of you and sending healing thoughts your way.

  3. Rebecca Says:

    Oh, May. I’m so sorry! :(

  4. Rebecca Says:

    P.S. The post on my blog today probably isn’t something you’d want to read today. Not that you’re up for stopping by, but I wanted to let you know. Hugs…

  5. korechronicles Says:

    Shit indeed! So, so, sorry.

  6. PamelaJeanne Says:

    My heart breaks for you…so very sorry.

  7. Ann Z Says:

    No! That fucking sucks. Sending wishes for comfort and healing your way.

  8. Andy Says:

    I’m so sorry… it really does suck.

  9. Sol Says:

    Oh my dearest May, no. Really one of the worst ways to find out I think. My deepest sympathy and hugs.

  10. Rachel Says:

    Oh no! I’m so incredibly sorry.

  11. Aphra Behn Says:

    *delurks*

    I don’t have words. I spent half an hour this evening explaining in detail to the one I explain these things to just how many words I don’t have.

    I’ve spent a lot of the last few months thinking of you both. Of all three of you.

    My heart goes out to you.

    I am so sorry.

    *relurks*

  12. MsPrufrock Says:

    Oh May…I’m so, so sorry. For the number of times I’ve had to say this to other women you’d think I’d have something better to say.

    Look after yourself.

  13. megan Says:

    oh may.
    my heart is broken for you.
    i’m so, so sorry.

  14. elizabeth Says:

    Oh, May, I am so, so sorry.

  15. Emily Says:

    So so so so so incredibly sorry. ::hugs::

  16. geohde Says:

    Fuck.

    May, I am so goddamn sorry,

    J

  17. DC Says:

    I am so sorry to hear this news. I’m sending you big virtual hugs and hoping for the best.

    I know this is a tough time for you, but if you’re looking for a distraction . . . I’m a new blogger, so please stop by and say hello if you get a chance. :)

    http://lupuspie.blogspot.com

  18. Rita Says:

    I can’t breathe.
    It hurts – I know.
    Drink tea – you’ll heal faster.
    Love Rita

  19. Katie Says:

    Another one here via NaComLeavMo and wishing that this wasn’t the post I was reading. I’m so sorry for you, sending you hugs.

  20. katie Says:

    So, so sorry to hear that – only just spotted this – can’t say anything that will make it feel better.
    I prescribe chocolate and DVDs. Knitting works for me, too, but perhaps it’s not your thing.

  21. Seriously? Says:

    Here from NaComLeavMo. I am very sorry that this is happening to you. I lost my baby 5w3d and I know how hard it can be.

    Thinking of you.

  22. thalya Says:

    May I’m so awfully sorry to hear this news. It’s just horrible, and desparate, and, just, well, awful. Thinking of you.

  23. shawna Says:

    over from nclm.

    I am so sorry for your loss. This is my first visit to your site and even though I’m new, my heart is just aching for you. What a horrible experience to endure. You will be in my thoughts.

  24. Jackie Says:

    May, I’m so sorry. So very sorry. You are in my thoughts.

  25. Mel Says:

    May, I am so incredibly sorry.


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